Slowly eating an elephant
The other day a colleague asked me how I am managing at work as I am one person with 2.5 roles. By the end of the conversation we had decided it was by 'eating the elephant one bite at a time' which is linked to an African proverb.
What struck me as things you can do before you commit were: limit, dare and clarify. You can limit what you do by setting appropriate boundaries but you can only limit by daring to say no. As saying no is hard, due to a trade off between popularity and respect, it is made easier by clarifying your essential intent for what/how to use your time/energy.
After you've taken on something you can edit and uncommit. So, when you realize that something's travelling in a different direction to what you expected, you step down/uncommit. Alternatively you can edit, cut things back which reduces commitment.
I thought they were quite interesting concepts, all of which I've struggled with, both in my leisure, volunteering and at work. For some reason I can name recent times I have limited, edited, uncommitted or said no within my leisure/volunteering roles, but not work. I guess this tells me something!
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